如何与人聊天

　　其实，和别人聊天不一定是件痛苦的事，即便对方是你期待能对你留下好印象的老板，抑或是你希望能多见面的相亲对象。接下来，小编给大家准备了如何与人聊天,欢迎大家参考与借鉴。

　　如何与人聊天

　　Making small talk doesn't have to be painful, even if it's with a boss you want to impress or blind date you want to see alot more of! Believe it or not, making small talk can be fun - even for quiet personality types. Making small talk is also an art that can be learned.

　　"So…how about this weather?" doesn't often lead to stimulating dialogue (but don't hesitate to use it if you're desperate). If you must make small talk about the weather, be specific. Say, "It'sfreezingcold outside – have you ever heard that saying, 'colder than ________' ? Where did that come from, anyway?" might work better, depending on who you're talking to.

　　Making small talk can be difficult even if you're an extrovert, but it's especially difficult for introverts. Here's how to enjoy making small talk.

　　How to Make Small Talk: 10 Tips for Starting Conversations With People You Don't Know

　　1. Keep up with current events.Make small talk about the news, sports, your community, or politics (unless politics is too controversial. On second thought, that can generate some pretty fiery dialogues!)

　　2. Comment on a piece of clothing or accessory.Ask where it came from, what the significance is, how much it cost (just kidding). Making small talk is about being observant about people you don't know well.

　　3. Pay attention to what they're saying.When you're making small talk, follow up on phrases; for instance, if they say they're "excellent", ask why – ask where you can get some. If they mention that they're exhausted, follow up on it. When you're making small talk, remember that great conversations and good connections can be just around the corner.

　　4. Share an anecdote about your day.Did you lose your keys or find ? Maybe you ate at a new restaurant recently, or found a great new CD. Making small talk is about sharing the little things.

　　5. Ask what movies or books they've seen or read recently.Someone once asked me that at a party. Admittedly, at first it felt contrived, but then we had a fantastic conversation about the book I was reading! Making small talk is about trying new conversations.

　　6. Talk about tv.Share your favourite tv shows - whether it's Oprah's revelation of The Secret or the your favorite sitcom. If you're Canadian, Little Mosque on the Prairie might be interesting to discuss! Making small talk about pop culture is easy and fun.

　　7. Recall your past conversations with the same person.Ask if their son is still ill or how the Mexican holiday went. Making small talk is easier when your memory is good.

　　8. Ask open-ended questions that require an explanation.For instance, "How are you?" isn't as effective as "Whatever happened with '__________' you were dealing with?" ('__________' could be a business deal, family problem, or financial investment) Remember that anything is a potential topic of conversation.You can even talk about how uncomfortable you are making small talk – and ask them how they do it.

　　9. Relax.Enjoy yourself.People are interesting! If you combine these tips for making small talk with sincere interest, you'll embark on a fascinating conversational ride.

　　10. Let it go.If the conversation feels like dragging a piano uphill then it may be time to move on or let silence take over. You can't connect with everyone, and some conversations simply refuse to take life! Making small talk involves knowing when it's time to move on.

　　扩展：分类词汇之穿着

　　ready-made clothes：成衣

　　clothes department：服装部

　　washable：耐洗的

　　shrink-proof：不缩水的

　　hand-made：手制的

　　spots：花点布

　　lastest design：最新设计

　　latest fashion：最时髦款式

　　fine quality：上品，上等质料

　　large size：大号尺码

　　small size：小号尺码

　　gaudy：浓艳

　　soft collar：软领

　　boggy：宽松间大，指裤管

　　material：衣料

　　tweed：呢绒

　　cashmere：茄士咪

　　flannel：佛兰绒

　　cotton cloth：棉布

　　suit：全套西服

　　dress：衣服通称

　　blouse：女恤衫

　　waist-coat(vest)：西服的背心

　　cuff：袖口

　　seat：裤裆

　　zip fastener：拉练

　　stitch：针脚、缝线

　　build：身材

　　sweater：羊毛衣

　　jacket：夹克

　　bow tie：蝶形领结

　　single-breasted：单排扣

　　custom-made：定制的衣服

　　shoes department：皮鞋部

　　water-proof：不透水的

　　wrinkle-free：不皱的

　　stripes：条纹布

　　checks：格子布

　　latest style：最新款式

　　fancy style：时式

　　pure silk：纯丝绸

　　medium size：中号尺码

　　loud：俗丽

　　flashy：闪光

　　stiff collar：硬领

　　stuff：衣料

　　worsted material：绒料

　　nylon：尼龙

　　serge：哔叽

　　corduroy：楞条花布，灯芯绒

　　evening dress(dinnerjackct)：晚礼服

　　trousers(slacks，pants)：裤

　　seam：衣的接缝处

　　cuff links：袖口钮

　　double-breasted：双排扣

　　beltline：裤腰

　　button：钮扣

　　men’s (children's，women's) wear：男人的，(儿童的，女人的)服装

　　full range of sizes：各种大小尺寸全备

　　full range of colours：各种颜色齐备

　　fob：裤的表袋

　　print shirt：印花恤衫

　　scarf：围巾

　　necktie：领带

　　out of stock：没有存货

　　too tight：太紧(太窄)

　　too loose：太宽

　　to let out：放宽

　　to let down：放长

　　to take in：收紧

　　to try：试穿(试身)

　　to adjust (to alter)：修改

　　to press the suit：熨平衣服

　　to put on a shirt：穿上衬衫

　　to wash the clothes：洗衣服

　　to wear the coat：穿上衣服

　　out of style：过了时式